How to Interact Respectfully with a Person with Disability

    Communication and discussion of disability are very sensitive subjects to many. However, I have had the opportunity to be taught on this subject when I read a very helpful handout, "Communicating with and about People with Disabilities."

    I would say that they practice positive, human-first language. Using phrases like "the blind" or "the disabled" takes away the humanity and even a person's chance at their own dignified identity. We should simply say "a blind person" or "a person with a disability." All these rearrangements would respect the person's identity while, at the same time, placing more emphasis on the humanness of the individual and not the disability of the person.

    Another aspect that is very important is the way one interacts with people with disabilities. If you meet someone with a disability, then offer your hand just the same as you might someone that didn't have a disability. It is okay to do so, even when the person has very limited use or when there is an artificial limb in place. This gesture is universal to show respect and should not be denied on assuming one's ability. 

    It is also important to make sure that your language doesn't sound in pitiable or peculiar in any way. Phrases like "suffers from" or "a victim of" bring more pain and hurt than the condition itself. Instead, phrases like "a person with cerebral palsy" or "a person who uses a wheelchair" are better.

    Lastly, don't be afraid to be engaged in normal social interactions with messages like "see you later" or "do you know about this?" The only thing that shouldn't be said is a fear of being politically incorrect. Always remember, when in doubt over what one needs to say or what to do, simply asking will do best. Most people with disabilities will appreciate your gesture that you make an effort to communicate with respect, and more often than not, they are usually prepared to guide you. Practices like these, when embraced, contribute to a society that is more understanding and inclusive, in which the barriers of communication fall apart, and each individual feels valued and respected.